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Ep 12: Emotional Intelligence in Color

In this episode LaTonya welcomes special guest Farah Harris. Farah Harris is a psychotherapist and workplace belonging and well-being expert dedicated to disrupting unhealthy work environments. She is the founder and CEO of WorkingWell Daily®, a company that approaches workplace belonging and well-being from a psycho-social and emotional intelligence lens. Farah has helped individuals and Fortune 500 companies develop healthier workplaces where employees want to stay and thrive because their leaders and teams have grown in empathy, self-awareness, social awareness, and cultural awareness. Her work has been featured in media and podcast platforms such as Forbes, Fast Company, Business Insider, Harvard Business Review, Huffington Post, Essence, Good Morning America, Martha Stewart, Thrive Global, and Therapy for Black Girls.

Farah is also the author of the international bestselling book, The Color of Emotional Intelligence: Elevating Our Self and Social Awareness to Address Inequities, a groundbreaking exploration of how cultural background and identity influence our emotional intelligence and shape our relationships with others.


Tips from Today’s Episode:

-Be aware of yourself and how to read the room

-Self check: “how do I feel right now?”

-If you have a low EQ reaction, make sure you rebound with a high EQ response

-EQ is a muscle and requires constant practice.


Resources from today’s episode:

-Link for Farah’s book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence


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Ep 11: How to Support Employees in Times of Distress

On this week’s episode of the Leading Below the Surface podcast, LaTonya discusses the effects of anxiety and trauma in the workplace and outlines some concrete steps leaders can take to support employees through difficult situations. Whether it’s war, pandemics, elections, systemic oppression, or other traumatic world events, the truth is anxiety is at an all time high. How can you support employees through traumatic events? How can you support people in a way where they feel acknowledged and validated regardless of whether you “agree?” These questions and more will be answered in this episode. 


Tips from Today’s Episode:

-Build a collaborative culture with psychological safety front and center

-Reiterate your personal and company values 

-(Re)Communicate anti-discrimination policies

-Encourage and practice active (P2P and P2B) listening

-Prepare managers to facilitate difficult conversations

-Plan for the worst and hope for the best


Resources from today’s episode:

–⁠What does mental health have to do with below the surface leadership?⁠

 ⁠-Global events add to workplace stress⁠

⁠-Yahoo news poll on the 2024 USA Election⁠

⁠-Post-COVID Stress⁠

⁠-The Effects of Layoffs on stress in the workplace⁠

⁠-Injuries and illness contribute to workplace stress⁠

–⁠Article: How HR leaders can address the Israel Hamas war with employees⁠


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Ep 10: How to Support the LGBTQ+ Community Beyond Pride Month

In this episode, LaTonya is joined by Stacey Stevenson (she/they) who is the first Black Chief Executive Officer for Family Equality. LaTonya and Stacey discuss the historical and life saving work they have engaged in. They also share a few unconventional ways, beyond “allyship,” in which people can support the LGBTQ+ community.

A bit more about Stacey:

A powerful speaker and motivator, Stacey regularly shares their experiences growing up LGBTQ+ in the rural South, being pulled out of the closet, and navigating life as a Black queer parent.

Stacey’s advocacy has helped propel Family Equality further into the national spotlight with multiple appearances on The Sunday Show with Jonathan Capehart, a bipartisan panel discussion hosted at the U.S. Capitol, collaborations with movement partners, countless speaking engagements, and media appearances including an op-ed in USA TODAY. In the op-ed, Stacey shared their family’s story of moving from their home state of Texas in search of a more welcoming community. Stacey, wife Cheralyn, and 9-year-old twin boys Duke and London are enjoying the life they are building in Washington D.C.


Tips from Today’s Episode:

– Speak up when we (LGBTA+ folks) are not in the room

– Be more proactive and consistent within your organization

– Partner with others across differences


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Ep 9: Is Psychological Safety Overrated?

Six Sigma Black Belts, quiet quitting, core competencies, and industry best practices – all of these are business fads that made us cringe, and, ultimately didn’t stick around. Will psychological safety be the next big fad or is it here to stay? In this episode, LaTonya Wilkins explores this exact question. She also discusses what psychological safety is, what it is not, and why it is here to stay.


Tips from Today’s Episode:

-Belonging is here to stay

-Equity is here to stay

-Coaching is here to stay

-Employee engagement is here to stay

-Design thinking is here to stay


Resources from today’s episode:

-For More on the Book Leading Below the Surface pg. 113

–Gallup Report on psychological safety

–Article on team psychological safety score and managers’ rating of skills

–Article on correlation between manager skills with psychological safety and increase in revenue

–HBR study on psychological safety and diversity

–Link to Change Coaches assessments


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Ep 8: How to Hire and Retain a Diverse Workplace

LaTonya welcomes a special guest, José Torres-Don, Executive Vice President of Organizational Development, People and Culture of MissionWired. In this episode, LaTonya and José discuss the following: how to hire and retain a diverse workplace, how to scale DEIB hiring, and how to double (or triple) your organization’s size without losing track of diversity.


Tips from Today’s Episode:

-When recruiting, carefully review your postings and reference language to ensure inclusivity

-Be more mindful when checking references of historically marginalized groups during the hiring process

-Centralize the recruitment process and, if possible, authentically involve BIPOC and LGBTQIA employees in the process


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Ep 7: What to Do if Your Clients Don’t Share Your DEIB Values

What happens when you have clients that don’t share your DEIB values? When should you take on a new client (or role) and when should you walk away? In this episode, LaTonya will candidly explore these exact topics. She will also discuss how buycotts, boycotts, and microaggressions affect these dilemmas.  Inspired by real client challenges, you won’t want to miss this episode!


Tips from Today’s Episode:

-Develop a client code of conduct and bill of rights

-Train leaders on having difficult conversations

-Have a more thorough client screening process


Resources from today’s episode:

–Qualtrics Study

–Goya Boycott Article


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Ep 6: Sobriety in the Workplace: The Diversity that’s Often Forgotten

Today we welcome our special guest Khadi Oluwatoyin and we discuss an important but not widely discussed topic: sobriety in the workplace. Khadi shares her personal journey and how she founded The Sober Black Girls Club, a global community that helps Black women with a common goal, to stay sober. LaTonya and Khadi talk about awareness and ways to ensure you are building an inclusive and psychologically safe environment for diversity that is often forgotten.


Tips from Today’s Episode

-Provide non-alcoholic beverage options at work functions where alcohol is present

-Stop constantly providing alcohol

-Get creative with rewards, use Google to find new and creative ways to reward employees


Learn more about Khadi and Sober Black Girls Club here:

Website: http://www.soberblackgirlsclub.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soberblackgirlsclub/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoberBlackGirlsClub/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/soberblackgirls

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/sober-black-girls-club/

Podcast:  Sober Black Girls Club Podcast

Donation Page: https://soberblackgirlsclub.com/donations/


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Ep 5: The State of DEI

What is the current state of DEI today? In this episode, LaTonya dives into three bleak statistics, and three hopeful statistics around DEI while exploring how Affirmative Action plays a role. She also discusses how belonging and psychological safety come into play. The episode ends with a few tips on how to navigate the shifts in the DEI industry, and things you can do today to maintain it as a primary organizational focus.


3 Tips from Today’s Episode:

-This is nothing new; embrace what is going on, and speak up to drive change.

-Don’t let fear guide your decisions.

-Evaluate what you’re doing and why. What’s working? What’s not working?


Resources from today’s episode:

“Bleak” Statistic Sources

Only 5% of recruiters say that DEI Efforts are in their top three priorities

DEI related job listings are down 19%

1 in 3 DEI Professionals Lost their job between late 2020 to late 2021


Other Sources

-Article – Everyone needs to have a role in DEI 

–5 steps to use coaching to create DEI structures at work 


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Ep 4: Life after Affirmative Action According to a Higher Education DEI Leader

This episode dives into the DEI Backlash since post 2020 and how things have shifted, most recently in light of the Supreme Court of the United States of America’s decision to overturn Affirmative Action. Our special guest, Denise Lewin Loyd, talks about DEI within higher education in addition to steps organizations can take to promote DEI.

Denise Lewin Loyd is associate dean for equity, an associate professor of business administration, and a Vernon Zimmerman Faculty Fellow at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She joined the University of Illinois faculty in 2013, and her research focuses on groups and teams, status, diversity, social identity, and ethics. Loyd earned her BS in civil engineering and architectural engineering, graduating with honors, from the University of Miami in 1992. She went on to receive her MS in civil and environmental engineering in 1994 from Massachusetts Institute of Technology, and her PhD in management and organizations in 2005 from the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University. Loyd is a board member for Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes and served for three years as a board member for the Academy of Management Review and Small Group Research journals. She has recently published work in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin and in Group Dynamics: Theory, Research, and Practice.


Tips from Today’s Episode:

-Affirmative action was never about unqualified individuals having an unfair advantage

-Self-care & engaging with our communities are more important than ever

-Follow the law but don’t fall into the “overreach” Affirmative Action trap


Resources from today’s episode:

Article on Texas A&M journalist and Professor – Dr. Kathleen McElroy


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Ep 3: My Thoughts on Affirmative Action and How it Affects Us

In this episode, LaTonya discusses the recent Supreme Court decision from both a personal and professional perspective. She also evaluates the impact of Affirmative Action throughout the years and provides perspective on how to move forward in your organization without race as a part of it.


3 Tips from Today’s Episode:

1. Reflection: What does diversity mean for you? What are you trying to do?

2. Meritocracies are a LIE!

3. Listen to our next Leading Below the Surface episode focused on Affirmative Action with special guest, Denise Loyd.


Resources from today’s episode:

New York Times Article on College Admissions

Wall Street Journal Podcast on Affirmative Action

LaTonya’s recent Article in Training Industry

LaTonya’s quick video on REAL leadership⁠

30-day Leadership Challenge


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